A Simple Prayer for My Cousin Lucy Comeros

Last day my mother told me about the death of my cousin Lucy due to stage 4 cancer. She was first rushed to one of the hospital in Mandaue City however the residents refused to admit her in. Then she was taken to another hospital in Cebu City where she eventually died. The side story is that she kept her illness to herself and her few trusted relatives. Not even her immediate family and her children knows about her having cancer of stage 4. It is said that she don’t want any of her family to worry or dispense anything for her illness. It so sad that only on her worst time her family knows the delimma they are facing.

Her lost brought pain to people who dearly knows her and to those she have done good. Because, this is a woman with a big heart. A heart ready to share to those who needs it. I may not know Lucy but upon talking to my mother about her makes me wish to knowing her. Lucy is a big lost to the family. A woman with pure heart and courage. Such an inspiration.

I am appealing my family, relatives and friends especially those bearing Comeros in their name to please give and say a simple prayer for Lucy’s soul to find her way to God’s eternal heaven. And to my cousin Lucy, my prayers are with you. May you have a peaceful journey to where good people should go, at the Lord’s side.

Her body will be laid down to her final resting placing this coming Saturday, December 12, 2009 at Tuburan Cebu.

This hosting job makes me go crazy

I can now feel the pressure of this hosting job for the coming company christmas party. Especially now that it will be this weekend. Aaaa!!!! I am not prepared as well the two other hosts. We are definitely not prepared at all. The script is not made, not even a draft. There are many necessary information needed that are still no where to be found. How can we rehearse without it. My co-MC’s and I have not yet met to brainstorm the things that we need to do onstage. Everything for the party for the job are all scrap upto now. We have not made it into a good work of art. This is so alarming!

Moreover, I still dont have a chinese costume for the party. Gosh, this is killing me. Dhang and I toured the whole of Ayala, Cebu to look for a chinese dress but we found nothing. Nothing to wear for the party. Nothing!!!

Right now… I still dont know where to look and how to start.

Maria Felda’s Shoutout:”I am aging UP! Greet me a Happy Birthday people!”

I first met this lady(She was young then, about in her thirty.Hehe) six years ago. That’s how long our friendship is. She was this jolly, open-minded, friendly, sometimes serious and sometimes strict lady. She has the best way of cracking joke. For some who first met her and those who doesn’t know her that much would actually think she was not joking. Because she’s so good in making her joke as if it’s not joke at all. No second thought, she can make you believe her. She is the real definition of looks can be deceiving. A woman with great, good sense of humor. FYI, I learned my way of joking from her. She’s my guru. Just keep this our secret, okay. She must not know. Thanks a lot. More to that is her wit. She is a woman that has acquired diploma in Genetic Engineering, Psycology, Medicine, Computer Science, Geodetic Engineering and a whole lot more. Ask her anything related to these fields, believe me she knows it. In short, she is a woman that knows everything and a woman that has mastered none.hehe.. Nope! Seriously, you ask her personally and see how witty she is. As a friend, she’s one of the best and the fairest. She embodied the true meaning of friendship. If you’ll ask me the definition of friendship, my answer is Maria Felda Querubin. Know her skin deep! You’ll see what I mean. Ofcourse, because she’s only human, she also have these negative traits, and negative etc. I don’t want to say bad things about her because its her birthday today, the 6th of December. Also, I don’t want to mention that she can be a beast enemy because I love my friend. So, I’m just leaving it to you a mystery. But I have to leave you this, be careful! Okay?!! H A P P Y B I R T H D A Y Maria Felda “Dhang” Querubin!!!! Wish you all the Best! Thanks for the healthy Friendship!

I long to see the person who once was mine.

I can’t remember when exactly we separated ways. What I can remember is the pain, the broken heart, the tears and the empty solitary nights after the broke up. It was a tough decision that it took me more than a week to finally decide to end everything. Prior to that, there were two other instances that I told the person to have this relationship ended which the person strongly disagreed. But that day, I was made up. I need to not because I’m not happy with the person or with the relationship. But because the person needs to go. I pushed the person away for another person. This person is not for me but for another person. It was not like an obligation but I took it that way. I am obliged to do it because the person was meant for another person. They were just meant to be.

They are expecting their child early next year. I knew it because the person was so honest with me. Infact, I was the one the person called up after confirming it through PT. The news came to me like an arrow slowly penetrating through my flesh straight to my heart. I acted like I was prepared for it to hide the great pain I was feeling. I laugh when I recall that night. I came up a lousy and the worst actor. I tried to act normally but I was not able to sustained the acting. I accidentally hit my cup of coke. It fell spilling on the floor hehe..These are the not so good experiences while in the relationship and even after the broke up.

How could I forget that night when we spent the whole time together very happy. It was so unforgettable. We had so much fun. I am sure that he was happy because he thanked me with the excitement of having it again. Those words were expressed coming from the heart. Lovely:)

We had many good and happy memories together. There were nights in an internet cafe, in a siomai sa tisa, in a bakery, playing text twist and plants vs. zombies, a nights full talking and the nights we spent for ourselves and a lot more. So memorable.

I am now missing the person!!!.

ACS of the Phils., Inc. – Cebu Christmas Party ’09

Mark the date. December 13, 2009 is ACS of the Phils., Inc. – Cebu Christmas Party ’09 at WhiteGold House, North Reclamation, Cebu City. See programme below for your guide. Don’t be Late!

Start	End	Activity	Presentor/Coordinator
05:00PM	06:00PM	Registration
06:00PM	07:00PM	Prayer Welcome Message Raffle for 4 Consolation Prizes	Choir c/o Abby Glen hardy Pedro Punay Sheena Obien Julius Sarino
07:00PM	08:00PM	Dinner	Music by ACS Sessionista c/o Guada
08:00PM	08:05PM	Intermission(Opening Dance Number)	Aetna medical(Grace & Co)
08:05PM	08:35PM	Presentation of Empress & Emperor Candidates	Seranade By Guada
08:35PM	08:45PM	Intermission(Band)	Aetna Medical c/o TL Vanessa
08:45PM	09:00PM	Contest(Grps 1 & 2)
09:00PM	09:10PM	Intermission(Band)	Aetna Medical c/o TL Cutie
09:10PM	09:20PM	Raffle of 5 Consolacion Prizes	Oliver Perez Fred Sawit Dennis Quinones
09:20PM	09:35PM	Contest(Grps 3 & 4
09:35PM	09:45PM	Surprise Number	Support c/o Fides
09:45PM	09:55PM	Raffle of 5 Consolacion Prizes	Frederick Suico Donnie German Mervyn Bareng
09:55PM	10:10PM	Contest (Grps 5 & 6)
10:10PM	10:20PM	Intermission(Band)	Anthem c/o Karen
10:20PM	10:30PM	Intermission (Dance)	Aetna Medical c/o Abby
10:30PM	10:35PM	Announcement of the Empress & Emperor Winners	Dina Romualdo
10:35PM	10:45PM	Raffle for 3 Major Prizes	Anthony Ajero Arnold Grimares Lester Celiz
10:45PM	10:55PM	Speech	Joseph Chiles
10:55PM	11:00PM	Announcement of Contest Winners

Masters of Ceremony: Ms. Iresh, Mr. Joemarie Amparo, and Mr. Boobie Legaspi

Feeling like a frustrated Programmer

I really find self study as a hard and a thing made not for me. But when I reached college and chose to be an IT specialist, this became my greatest obstacle. I am used to being spoon fed with my lessons. I do not give a damn to visit the library to study and do research. Why should I? I’ve got my friends who can help me with the programming problems and my instructors to teach me the lessons. All I need to do is to listen, extract information and learn from them. That’s all I need.That was me. Until I was doing my theis. I was with 3 others. They’re good. We are all good. Each one is assigned with different function. I was tasked to do QA. I also do DB Design, UI Interface, and colaborate with the Document Specialist for the entire documentation until it finally became a book. I wanted to be in the coding task but I’m just not qualified. We used PHP, MySQL, and Apache Server. This was out of my knowledge. I never had the chance to take this subject. I was not taught and I was not spoon fed. So, I rely to our programmers. We all did. Because our programmer is not greedy enough to own every coding job, he assigned me to research and study about certain programming langauage, techniques and logics. He was so shareful that he even let me read programming codes and even code. I was happy for the chance but I felt like I am just the great assistant, the next to, the next priority, etc, always the least priority and always an option. Yes, I was insecure and intimidated. But I have to accept the truth, accept my role so that I would not be feeling emotional pain anymore brought by self-disappointment and focus on the task to help finished the thesis. But I am not dropping the dream. I will keep the dream of being a programmer someday. I will do everything to become one. Even if takes years, I will wait because I will be!

One Comeros Clan:A Clamor for Help.

R U 1 of Us?  Get connected now! Help us complete our Family Tree! Email the complete name of the members of your family to joemarieamparo@yahoo.com. First Generation Second Generation Third Generation Fourth Generation Angel Comeros & Sebastiana Pacaña (deceased) Eufracio & Magdalena Makig-angay (deceased) Arthuro & Ronnie Sumabong McArcs Sumabong *Other names will follow. Bernardo & Edyl Comeros *Other names will follow. Marlon & Nora Comeros Hazil Comeros *Other names will follow. Allan & Magdalena Comeros *Other names will follow. Galicano & Corsina Comeros (deceased) Galicano Jr & Onnie Comeros Dave Comeros Joeven Comeros Junior Melendres & Editha Comeros Aiko Melendres Ruffa Melendres Jeanette Melendres Zoren Melendres Romel & Emily Comeros Neemrel Comeros Shenely Comeros Daniel Comeros Benjamin Amparo & Erlinda Comeros Benjeric Amparo   Ronaldo Alpabete & Amalia Amparo Ezerbenz Jay Alpabete Jake Harold Alpabete Rhona Jane Alpabete Mohamed Ismail Abdul Gapor & Teresita Arocha Kristine Thea Arocha Kyle James Arocha Keith Andrew Arocha Joemarie Amparo   Winnie Robledo & Juvelyn Amparo Natalia Noreen Robledo(deceased) Benjamin Amparo Jr

The Twilight Saga : New Moon

Admittedly, I am a Twilight fan. So I am so dying to saga the next movie New Moon. I love it so much. A new twist, new characters and new super natural being. It’s a whole new story to me. No wonder this is a super hit in the market.

See it here >>> Part 1 | Part 2

Enjoy!!!!